Stop Pretending and Get Right With Yourself

Sep 1, 2023 | Lifestyle, Motivation

What I’m about to say is going to piss off 95% of the people who read it. And if you fall into that group of people, you might as well move on because quite frankly – you ain’t my people.

However, if you’re the remaining 5% who like what I have to say – then we’re good!

Quit Fooling Yourself. Quit Pretending.

There’s an overwhelming number of you out there pretending you’ve got your shit together when you don’t. You either are trying to convince yourself that everything is good on the personal and business “fronts” of your lives, or you’re trying to convince others around you that life is all good in your world.

Maybe you’re trying to convince others you’re the most disciplined person when it comes to who you are as a person, or for your mental or physical goals and health. Yet if you really looked at yourself, you find your more inconsistent than anything.

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You’re All Smoke and Mirrors…

Maybe you’re holding yourself out to be the most “dialed-in” CEO or leader of your business or organization, and think you have everyone fooled.

You’re like a duck in the water; cool and calm above, but frantically paddling underneath to stay afloat.

You think no one can see you through the smoke and mirrors you set up, but I’ve got some real bad news for you…

You know the real you and so does everyone in your inner circle; your friends, your wife, your kids, your employees, and you dog.

Want To Get Real and Get Elite?

It’s time to check yourself, man up (or woman up!) and get right with yourself so you can be right with those who look up to you.

As someone who knows a thing or two about what it means to be in an elite category, I can tell you I ain’t a pretender. And the people I surround myself with aren’t pretenders either. We like to put ourselves in the category of being elite.

I’ve teamed up with my good friend Matt Schneider of Ignite Coaching, to bring you an in your face, rock solid course to get your mindset squared away and move you out of the pretender life and into the elite one you should be living.

Click here to get more info about The Q-Course.

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  • Ray Cash Care

    Ray Cash Care is a former Navy SEAL who provides coaching to clients wanting to take their personal and professional life to the next level. He is a highly sought motivational speaker to companies of all sizes.